Is it wrong that i don't feel sorry?

An example is my boyfriends family. He complains about how they might be homeless soon and how they are struggling and are blaming other people.They are complaining on how people are racist and the white people don't like them because they are from New Orleans. I beg to differ. But then i realized, I saw his father who can't talk proper english, has gold teeth in his mouth and has low education skills; his cousin who also has gold teeth, smells like weed, you can barely understand his improper speach, and dropped out of high school. And now they are complaining on how the white man is't giving them jobs?? Hmm i wonder why. Also i've heard that after Katrina his father got $50,000 from the insurance and as soon as he did he blew in a week on sneakers, clothes and jewlery. And now they are complaining about others and can't pay their rent due to their own foolish choices?


Is it ok to NOT feel sorry for them?





and why should i feel sorry for others with this worped ghetto mentality??

Is it wrong that i don't feel sorry?
I wouldn't feel sorry for them.
Reply:It's awfully hard to be sorry when the people you're supposedly trying to help are basically accusing you of being a cruel, sadistic devil. Really gets your charity instincts going, doesn't it?
Reply:It has nothing to do with race. There are many people out there who do not make good choices and then blame everyone else but themselves. It's their problem---not yours.





As to the second part of your question, I think any employer, no matter what color he was, would not hire anyone who is unclean --unless the job might be for a sanitation worker. And without a high school education or a GED there are few jobs available to ANYONE.
Reply:But heres the thing: you dont have to like ANYONE if they are uneducated and ghetoo regardless of race.





But you come off really mean and you sound as if you dont like Blacks in general. I dont know if this is true but based off what you just said thats what Im guessing. Black people dont all have ghetto names and their not all high school dropouts. We dont all blow our money on weed and sneakers. I look like crap because my money is tied up in a college education.





I dont know what to tell you but your statement needs to be rephrased or something.
Reply:is this real it sounds like u made this up but if it is real...


I don't feel sorry for anyone who blows off 50thousand within a week...thats just foolish.


I do feel bad that he can't find a job...maybe he's looking in all the wrong places...come on if the American ppl can hire a bunch of illegal immigrants to work for them then they can hire someone who was born in this country





Also is a white person racist because they won't hire you due to you being a highschool dropp out, having discusting dreadlocks, a full grill in the mouth, has a first name of Laquanisha and can't say a sentence in understandable english? my bad, people are soo ""racist""??? Is it ok to not feel sorry??


what's wrong iwth having dreadlocks its just a hair style...and you're saying that a person shouldn't get hired at a certain job b/c of his/her name...do u even have black friends. It sounds like u need to think about what u just type...I wouldn't hire someone who mumbles but no one speaks "correct" english so I'll hire someone based on their skills and how they present themselve...I wouldn't hire someone if they were saggin and smelling like weed....but for the grill and all...that crap doesn't matter
Reply:Yes, it is OK not to feel sorry for people like this. They have created their own problems.





And $50,000 blown in one week on stupid sh!t? That makes me sick to my stomach. When you receive that kind of money, you should SAVE a large portion of it, float some and yes, blow a little of it, but not the whole wad. Damn.





ETA: It's not just black people who are like this. There was a show on people who won the lottery. The choices they made were unbelievable--and the majority of these winners were white.



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