I met this guy whom i have alot of fun with but we are in totally different worlds. should i give him a chance

he two years younger than me which is no big deal, he has a 10 years old kid, he sells dru.gs, he has gold teeth, he wears caps ,tennis, and teeshirts daily. he is so smart and intelligent but he wont give his positive side a chance. he is a artist and has a brilliant mind. im totally different. i dress up with heels and button up shirts. i hate gold teeth because it sterotype people and it makes you look cheap. i have a professional job where i wear suits. what should i do i like him but we are way to different? i want to try and change him but maybe i cant. he has alot of good ideas! please help me im stuck

I met this guy whom i have alot of fun with but we are in totally different worlds. should i give him a chance
You have a professional job and are dating a man who illegally sells drugs and has a 10 year old child?





Girl, get it together. I say, MOVE ON before you end up in the slammer with him.
Reply:yo i think that if u feel u can make something work then yea give a guy a chance but if u feel a little shaky about things it might be best to move on
Reply:Lola's answer above is 100% right. The drug dealing is the deal killer.
Reply:You wont be able to change him. You as an idividual can't change a person. No, i dont think that you should pursue anything with this person. It seems like you have built up a very nice life for yourself. And You wouldn't want to put all that at risk because you have a crush on some kid that sells drugs. he may be cute. He may be "Brilliant", but until he acts like it, I would stay away!
Reply:oh sure give him the chance - i am sure you shall feel content


you did.Good luck.
Reply:meh...do the world a favor and turn him in for the drug dealing...maybe that will change him.
Reply:I don't think you should get too involved. But just keep it at friends. Friends have a lot of influence on friends, just don't let him change you though. And please don't start doing drugs. If you have a lot of fun then just stay as friends and have a lot of fun. But I wouldn't get involved in a relationship with him. I don't think it would work out. Plus its dangerous to get involved with all that stuff, if you know what I mean.



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